Have you ever known this fact about fishes? The
growth of fishes in a tank is confined by the total volume of the tank. If the
same fish were to be brought up in a big pond, it would have grown double or
triple the size in the tank. The major reason for this is the stress the fish
has to endure due to living in a confined environment. Added to this, living in
the same water for longer periods of time accumulates growth inhibitors secreted
by the fish which inturn results in restricted growth and shortened lifespan.
The reason why I mentioned this here is that I want
all of us to think… What is common between a fish in a tank and almost all of
us? In a way, most us live in motion restricted tanks too. We are restricted by
out aims. Many of us have similar life patters of being born, getting
preliminary education, going to college, gaining professional education and
gaining a reputed job with a good enough salary package/or doing own business
that pays us well. We migrate to large cities to accomplish this dream of
ours/our parents/near and dear ones…. But we do not realize that more than
gaining, we end up losing…
We too are restricted in our growth by the confined
life of going to office, coming back exhausted, sitting idly in front of TV,
sleeping, waking up in the morning, going to office… And during weekends, we
have no time to enjoy either… We hardly exercise, go places, spend quality time
with family… And what is the result? All sorts of illnesses, depressions,
premature births of babies (which by the way is something very common in our
generation). We enjoy sports and games, but only on television… How many of us
do regularly find time and company to play one game which involves physical
activity?
We are indeed fishes in a tank… with hardly any
space to breathe and constantly competing among ourselves to survive… I recently read an
article about the island of Ikaria, a Greek island in the Aegean Sea. This is
called the “island
where people forget to die”. There is a considerable number in the
population who are well above their 80’s and 90’s leading very healthy and
active lives than many of us in the 20’s in cities. This is just an example of
what we can do with our lives, when we are in close relationship with the
Mother Nature.
Please do not misunderstand me when you read this. I
do not want to tell you to leave all your work and other responsibilities and
migrate to some village so that you could live in unison with the nature. All I
want to tell you is that the more advanced we bring our lifestyle, the more
complicated it becomes, and we eventually end up forgetting to live…
Dear Teena Tom,
ReplyDeleteAfter reading your blog i see that its true what you are saying.
We forget to live our lives ,but plan for the unseen future.
Keep writing
Best wishes :-)
@Anonymous... Thank you :)
Deleteexcellent thought ...
ReplyDeleteThanks Manu... :)
DeleteRight Teena, in all branches of science, we study about nature. It is from nature that medicine, engineering, mathematics etc. has evolved and in spite of all these studies, we are so cut off from the source. We are taught that nature is just a "resource" that needs to be exploited for our benefit. But we are not taught that it is we who are completely dependent on this resource and not the other way round. Since we are the dependent ones, is it not our duty to protect and care for it? These resources are not going to last forever. Recent news is that the honey bees are losing their way back to the hives because of pesticide use. If the honeybees die, no pollination, no food. If humans die, everyone else will be happy !
ReplyDeletePlease take time to watch all the movies in this site:
http://www.storyofstuff.org/
You are very right...Even though there are huge efforts going on to bring about the "green" sense of responsibility among us, the response is pretty feeble from our side...
DeleteThanks a lot Aswathy, for bringing in your perspective of the subject here...
Good post and well presented except may be for the three dot syndrome :-)
ReplyDeleteThe subject is a comparison of life of a fish in a tank and that of ours inside a cubicle. The comparison is not a 100 percent acceptable as the fish in most cases do get a choice on where it can be but we do. In most cases what happens is we restrain ourselves from taking that risk and take the easier route in our carriers and end up doing something uninteresting. Its more of not being able to realize what we actually want in life that is causing the issue.
So i would say find your aspirations and take risks as "One of the biggest risks is not taking any"
You must have meant that "the fish in most cases do not have a choice on where it can be, but we do"... :)
DeleteAnyways i did not want to make a 100% comparison of the fish and us... all I wanted to say that we are many a times like a fish in a tank, who don't even realize that we have a choice of making ours lives different...rather better
And the three dots syndrome... sorry bro, just comes out of habit... anyways this is no official document right!!! :D
It's much more pleasing on the eye when those three dots aren't there. It's ok when we chat but not always on a blog.
DeleteI agree with GT,,
Delete@RPS... I am taking that you agree with GT's first comment :)
DeleteGood one Chris!!
ReplyDeleteThank you Deepak :-)
DeleteGood taught. Freedom enjoyed by ancestors like adam and eve , being one with the nature, I think was worthless. Be in the tank and occationally come out of the tank than be out of the tank always. That will give you more satisfaction and pleasure.
ReplyDeleteThe point here is that most of us do not realize that we r in the tank... I wanted to give a self check message to everyone :-)
DeleteWhat we do with our life is up to us....u r free to expand ur box or break the walls of your box.....Life wants us to be
ReplyDeleteproactive !
You are very right Indu, it is just that many of us do not realize this fact... :)
DeleteAgree on this.
ReplyDeleteMost of us are cooped up in a flat and has no other activity whatsoever.
Take a simple example: Have you ever been to a house/flat that does not have a balcony? How does one feel?
That would be one of the most suffocating feelings!!! But I guess many a time, people in large metros like Mumbai have no other go than staying in such conditions paying unbelievable rents :P
DeleteAwesome thought..... a thought that comes to my mind everyday. Is it worth spending time in a tank or keep chasing our ambitions and keep moving to bigger tanks? But our ambitions come at a cost.......... a cost that keeps us away from the ones we love. The trick is to strike a balance but i dont know how???? i am still looking for an answer..........
ReplyDeleteAptly said :)
DeleteA dilemma that must be crossing many of our minds daily... Lucky are the ones who can find a solution to this!!!
It is amusing to see ppl taking ur metaphors literally..
ReplyDeleteLife is what we make it...its not that our lives are restricted...its jus that we like fancy little shiny tanks than big oceans ...
I personally might not be happy living till 100 on a small island and very less to do..
And more than analyzing about nature etc.//.trick is to enjoy life accepting it has no meaning whatsoever !..quotation from Vicky CT Barcelona movie..
We humans have the luxury to stay in tanks and visiting Oceans occassionally..like u do..get a refresher in Kerala and come back to cubicles again..
And yeah..very good post by u coz....it def triggers us to think outside the tank..
Keep posting!
@RPS... thanks for descriptive depiction of your views :)
DeleteLovely views !
ReplyDelete@Anonymous... Thanks :)
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